On a day of disguises, just a thought to ponder…
What masks are you wearing? Are you hiding behind a facade or wall in your relationships? Perhaps relying a bit too much on being “hot” or “successful?” Or maybe using religion or politics to push people away from knowing you too well?
After being hurt a time or two, its easy to just decide to retreat behind a constructed personality or story. Sometimes presenting what you know isn’t really you, makes it easier to face rejection. After all, since they don’t really know YOU, when they don’t call, its not because of YOU!
That being said, when someone does decide to go out with you again, its not really YOU they are liking either.
My dad always told me… the higher the risk, the higher the reward. He was talking about business and calculated risks, but I think it applies to relationships as well. Take a chance. Let someone know you. The real you. You might be surprised to find that they actually really like what they see.
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What masks are you wearing? Are you hiding behind a facade or wall in your relationships? Perhaps relying a bit too much on being “hot” or “successful?” Or maybe using religion or politics to push people away from knowing you too well?
After being hurt a time or two, its easy to just decide to retreat behind a constructed personality or story. Sometimes presenting what you know isn’t really you, makes it easier to face rejection. After all, since they don’t really know YOU, when they don’t call, its not because of YOU!
That being said, when someone does decide to go out with you again, its not really YOU they are liking either.
My dad always told me… the higher the risk, the higher the reward. He was talking about business and calculated risks, but I think it applies to relationships as well. Take a chance. Let someone know you. The real you. You might be surprised to find that they actually really like what they see.
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Respect and Tenderness
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5 Ways to Bring Laughter into Your Relationships
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