Why Do Women Leave Us Guessing?
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Ladies We Need Answers
The Difference Between Girls and Women
On Dating: Experienced or Just Plain Damaged?
A Chosen Season: On Being Single in My Late 20s
The Painful Friends With Benefits Cycle
10 Reasons Why You Might Still Be Single
The Things Women Say That Piss Off Men
Challenges Of A Male Relationship Blogger
Why Relationships Commitment Scares Me
The Dumbest Arguments Couples Have
Don’t Tell Me Where To Be Romantic!
Tickle Me Cheater
I agree with Il Capo if you don’t call him, text him, IM him back you’ll lose his interest. What I believe ‘gets’ a guy is your interest in him. He plays it cool – you play it hot (not talking sex here k). By hot I don’t mean needy, consuming, clingy but the best of your personality for some of you flirty, for some of you funny, for some of you erudite.
Men are as vulnerable as women to Game/Rules techniques, including alpha men. If anything, beta men are less vulnerable to Rules women than alphas, for the simple reason that they are more easily discouraged. If a Rules woman refuses a Saturday date on a Wednesday night, a beta man won’t call her again on Saturday of the same week to see if she’s changed her mind, as an alpha would (with a casual joke/insult to show he’s not too invested in it). He probably won’t call her again at all.
JD PERMALINK
October 20, 2009 3:31 am
Just a word to the wise. Social dominance isn’t an attraction switch to men the way it is to women. So if you try shit testing him the way the rules tell you do, and it doesn’t work, then it will backfire completely and you will become more attracted to him because of it.
Also, while I’m not a PUA, between having read their materials and having personally seen women use plays and gambits on me, the likes of which Mystery and Style have never seen I can tell when a girl is trying to game me. As can any man who’s read PUA material. At the same time, I’ve been felled by women willing to try hard enough.
Anecdote: This girl at school was into me and she broke one of the rules right off the bat by going in cold. After two weeks of talking off and on she asked me why I never asked her for her name. Outside of getting starbucks across the street every week or two I never asked for her number or saw her outside of school. She’d dangle threats like “I might be moving in a couple weeks” and I’d tell her I’d miss her and move onto something else.
She spent the next two months just engaging in casual conversation and dropping in things like “your eyes are pretty” “you look cute in that shirt” “you should come over so I can cook you dinner” and asking for hugs (never in my life have I met someone who needed so many hugs). She finally cracked me when she wrapped her arms around me, leaned her head on my shoulder and said, “Why don’t you hug me? You never hug me…”
The Difference Between Girls and Women
On Dating: Experienced or Just Plain Damaged?
A Chosen Season: On Being Single in My Late 20s
The Painful Friends With Benefits Cycle
10 Reasons Why You Might Still Be Single
The Things Women Say That Piss Off Men
Challenges Of A Male Relationship Blogger
Why Relationships Commitment Scares Me
The Dumbest Arguments Couples Have
Don’t Tell Me Where To Be Romantic!
Tickle Me Cheater
I agree with Il Capo if you don’t call him, text him, IM him back you’ll lose his interest. What I believe ‘gets’ a guy is your interest in him. He plays it cool – you play it hot (not talking sex here k). By hot I don’t mean needy, consuming, clingy but the best of your personality for some of you flirty, for some of you funny, for some of you erudite.
Men are as vulnerable as women to Game/Rules techniques, including alpha men. If anything, beta men are less vulnerable to Rules women than alphas, for the simple reason that they are more easily discouraged. If a Rules woman refuses a Saturday date on a Wednesday night, a beta man won’t call her again on Saturday of the same week to see if she’s changed her mind, as an alpha would (with a casual joke/insult to show he’s not too invested in it). He probably won’t call her again at all.
JD PERMALINK
October 20, 2009 3:31 am
Just a word to the wise. Social dominance isn’t an attraction switch to men the way it is to women. So if you try shit testing him the way the rules tell you do, and it doesn’t work, then it will backfire completely and you will become more attracted to him because of it.
Also, while I’m not a PUA, between having read their materials and having personally seen women use plays and gambits on me, the likes of which Mystery and Style have never seen I can tell when a girl is trying to game me. As can any man who’s read PUA material. At the same time, I’ve been felled by women willing to try hard enough.
Anecdote: This girl at school was into me and she broke one of the rules right off the bat by going in cold. After two weeks of talking off and on she asked me why I never asked her for her name. Outside of getting starbucks across the street every week or two I never asked for her number or saw her outside of school. She’d dangle threats like “I might be moving in a couple weeks” and I’d tell her I’d miss her and move onto something else.
She spent the next two months just engaging in casual conversation and dropping in things like “your eyes are pretty” “you look cute in that shirt” “you should come over so I can cook you dinner” and asking for hugs (never in my life have I met someone who needed so many hugs). She finally cracked me when she wrapped her arms around me, leaned her head on my shoulder and said, “Why don’t you hug me? You never hug me…”
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