To Be…Blunt or Not To Be…Blunt

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That is the question. Do guys want us to be blunt or not?

Last night at the bar a guy asked me, are you here to talk to men or to have some private time with your friend? Because he asked me that, I of course responded that I was here to spend some private time with my girlfriend.

However, I was curious why he had asked me this, and he explained to me his experience with the last several girls he spoke that night. He was upset and asked me why girls would get all dressed up, go out to a bar and not want to talk to guys.

I, being the girl, of course knew the answer to this question. At this point, I had a choice to make. That is, to be blunt or not to be blunt. He was asking me to be blunt. Any naive girl would have been blunt, in hopes of 1. getting rid of him and 2. because he asked her to be.

However, I am far from naive and have experience with being blunt. Being blunt with men quickly turns into being “the bitch”. Here is how it happens.

Chains


Release your chains from me. Just hurt me so I can move on. I never wanted to face the pain, but now…anything is better than these chains. I will take the wound so I can move on, instead of withering away in these chains. Waiting, eternally waiting.

Unable to move for fear of losing you when I never really had you in the first place. Everything I gave to you and this is how you return it. Forever chained to you, confused and miserable.

Either you love me or you don’t; this is the key to my release. And until I know I am forever bound under the oppressive weight of your chains, my soul dying with the sound of my crushing bones.
Début de l'événement 10.01.2022
Fin de l'événement 10.01.2022