Tethered to Love, Pulled by Adventure
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A Relationship Evolved (and Happy Birthday To My Ex)
The Unforgettable First Kiss
Jealousy Versus Envy
Love Addict: The Pregnancy Dilemma
How Do You Help Someone Who Doesn’t Want Help?
Most Radical Relationship Books On the Market
We Hold Ourselves Back
What Happens When You Actually In Relationship??
Is a Same-Sex Encounter Important in Living Holistically?
You’re a Selfish Bitch and That’s Why You’re Not Married
Learning How to Love Yourself
Love Addict: Writing the Personal
How Do You Learn to Let Go?
Oh yeah, it’s all my own shit (the only exterior push is I have to give notice to my landlord by the end of this month if I’m gonna leave at the end of March). He’s been perfectly calm about the whole thing and puts no pressure on me.
What you said about not disappointing people I care about rings true, and also knowing that I’m working through old patterns that have kept me wrapped up in only wanting something when I can’t have it. I’m trying my best to just sit with it all, but that chatter in my brain likes to constantly rear up. I think the truth is partly, I don’t know where I want to go or which choice feels best to me. This is what I need to connect with more than anything else.
Thanks for your thoughts, Lindi.
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Kelsey May 5, 2011 at 8:02 am
I’m currently struggling with this one myself. I’ve been with my current boyfriend for 3.5 years, and we’ve lived together for two of those (a year was also spent 8,000 miles apart, while I lived in S. Korea). Everything’s pretty good.
However, I’m a traveler, and I’ve been feeling stuck recently. Stuck in Virginia, where we live. I want to roadtrip, to backpack, to couchsurf, but my obligations back here make that prohibitively expensive. I love Marc and I don’t want to say “Hey, I’m running off to Europe for a few months. You have to pay the full balance of the rent so that I don’t have to worry about it”, but I also don’t want to let this feeling of our relationship being a restriction grow any bigger than it already is.
The Unforgettable First Kiss
Jealousy Versus Envy
Love Addict: The Pregnancy Dilemma
How Do You Help Someone Who Doesn’t Want Help?
Most Radical Relationship Books On the Market
We Hold Ourselves Back
What Happens When You Actually In Relationship??
Is a Same-Sex Encounter Important in Living Holistically?
You’re a Selfish Bitch and That’s Why You’re Not Married
Learning How to Love Yourself
Love Addict: Writing the Personal
How Do You Learn to Let Go?
Oh yeah, it’s all my own shit (the only exterior push is I have to give notice to my landlord by the end of this month if I’m gonna leave at the end of March). He’s been perfectly calm about the whole thing and puts no pressure on me.
What you said about not disappointing people I care about rings true, and also knowing that I’m working through old patterns that have kept me wrapped up in only wanting something when I can’t have it. I’m trying my best to just sit with it all, but that chatter in my brain likes to constantly rear up. I think the truth is partly, I don’t know where I want to go or which choice feels best to me. This is what I need to connect with more than anything else.
Thanks for your thoughts, Lindi.
Reply
Kelsey May 5, 2011 at 8:02 am
I’m currently struggling with this one myself. I’ve been with my current boyfriend for 3.5 years, and we’ve lived together for two of those (a year was also spent 8,000 miles apart, while I lived in S. Korea). Everything’s pretty good.
However, I’m a traveler, and I’ve been feeling stuck recently. Stuck in Virginia, where we live. I want to roadtrip, to backpack, to couchsurf, but my obligations back here make that prohibitively expensive. I love Marc and I don’t want to say “Hey, I’m running off to Europe for a few months. You have to pay the full balance of the rent so that I don’t have to worry about it”, but I also don’t want to let this feeling of our relationship being a restriction grow any bigger than it already is.
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