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I’m not sure what’s going on. A common theme amongst all my new leads lately is this:

Things go really well when we meet, they seem into me
Texts seem to go fairly well the first time I hit them up
They start to fade – excuses for not being able to meet up, flaking, or just out-and-out ignoring my texts
This shit continues to happen…. and has now happened with:
Nola
Short Model
All four strong leads from the weekend I fucked “Shit Talker”, including this one
Dancer/Model/Psych Chick
Huge IOI Girl
The 9 That Called Me An Asshole
Both of the last two girls I number closed on OkCupid
The Pre-Med Girl I Gamed In Front of My Parents
And, now… both Sweet Pea and The Nurse
So, basically the last 15 chicks that I’ve number closed AND felt really strongly about…. have all basically disappeared and I’ve never gotten even one date with any of them….
I honestly don’t know where the problem lies, but I admit I’m getting a bit frustrated by it…
Here’s the text transcript with The Nurse following my drunken night by the pool…
Nurse: It was nice meeting you last night 9:54 AM
Me: Yeah, you seem like you might be a cool chick… 12:43 PM
Nurse: haha yeah, you seem pretty cool yourself :) 1:46 PM
Me: Of course, of course. What you getting into this week? 3:30 PM
Nurse: Not much just work :/ wbu? 3:53 PM
Me: Work and I have a close friend that I plan to catch up with a some point. Where do you work? 4:12 PM
Nurse: That’s what’s up, I work at [hospital], I have an internship with them as a student nurse, I’m in nursing school right now. Where is it that you work again?4:35 PM
Me: I work in [details...] 5:09 PM
Nurse: 5:23 PM [She sent a blank text... what the fuck is that?]
Me: The last text you sent was blank… 5:52 PM
Nurse: Oops sorry about that, but that’s cool, do you like it? 5:53 PM
Me: Yeah its cool, get to learn a lot about business working for clients in different industries… How do you like nursing? 6:23 PM
Nurse: That’s neat, sounds interesting. I love it, its hard work but I enjoy it 8:23 PM
Me: Thats cool…they got you working those crazy nurse hours? 9:30 PM
Nurse: Not too too bad, but I work 7-7 though, its exhasuting sometimes 10:22 PM
I didn’t respond until the next morning…
Me: 7-7 gets exhausting? You better get that stamina up if you trying to be a nurse 10:40 AM
Nurse: Haha yeah it can be after moving around for 12 hrs but I’m getting used to it now! 2:46 PM
After that I let that conversation die, and hit her back up a few days later:
Me: I heard that all silly nursing interns run around their bedrooms in pink scrubs dancing in front of the mirror and singing into their hair brush… 3:04 PM
And she never responded…..
Frustrating to say the least. Seeing leads I think are very strong just die and lose interest right before my eyes…. apparently, I need to work on something, but I’m not sure what it is…
Début de l'événement 24.01.2023
Fin de l'événement 24.01.2023