Are We Too Divided to Date The Growing Conflict Between Men and Women

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I appreciate your honest opinions as they are very insightful, if fucking disappointing.
Don’t get me wrong, I always pay on a first date and always assume I’ll be picking up the check on subsequent dates as that’s always the smart play, but Cali, if your offer to pay is insincere, don’t make the offer, especially if you will be offended if he accepts. That is not being polite. That’s playing games.

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Cali Bradshaw
March 21, 2011 at 7:36 pm #
Fair enough. Perhaps offended wasn’t the correct word. Maybe just bummed. Because to me, that would say that this guy isn’t trying to impress me and that doesn’t bode well for the future of our relationship. Thanks for your comment and your perspective.

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yohami
March 21, 2011 at 5:27 pm #
girls want equality when its about the earnings, not the spendings

fall of chivalry = raise of feminism

you cant keep the old fashioned men and the modern woman together. short story: men will get hurt, women will feel unsatisfied

if you do get to a point where you are toe-toe with a big major male CEO, chances are you will have lost all of your feminine attributes

anyway: of course the male has to put energy into courtship, and when its well put and wanted, it does make you feel special. thats how it works in nature and works with us. so, I do usually pay for stuff, but I keep my eye on whether its taken as a “gift” or if its taken for granted

I have seen so many guys paying for everything (compensating) and getting nothing out of it
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