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Just as we have to take some responsibility, so do ya'll. All this we're still going to be the "naturally great guys we’ve always been." We want to "be thoughtful", "charming", "make your friends laugh when you introduce us to them", "check on you when you’re sick", "send you good morning emails and good night text messages". Is not ish you should be doing with a woman that you know wants a relationship with you and you are not available for what she needs. If she LIES to you and says "cool let's be kick it buddies" then you got a case. But if she's telling you that she sees more in you, that she wants you in her future, that she's not trying to be your buddy, then you may just have to deal with the "frustration" of being loved by a woman that you "didn't want to fall in love with you" even though your actions said something completely different.

There are lots of other options, for both sides. Let us not pretend that matters of the heart are simple for either sex by any stretch of the imagination.

How about we both agree to let our words match our actions a lil better.
*lights a candle and starts singing Kumbuya"

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August 29, 2011 at 12:53 am
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So, you just gon make up stuff that wasn't in the post?

a woman that you know wants a relationship with you and you are not available for what she needs. If she LIES to you and says "cool let's be kick it buddies" then you got a case. But if she's telling you that she sees more in you, that she wants you in her future, that she's not trying to be your buddy, then you may just have to deal with the "frustration"